My husband makes love from midnight till dawn, woman in Kaduna State has petitioned a local court to dissolve her six-year marriage, citing her husband’s alleged excessive sexual demands and instances of physical abuse.
According to a report by Vanguard, Mrs. Stephen, a resident of Ungwan Sunday in Kaduna, appeared before a customary court, pleading for a divorce from her husband, whom she accused of forcing her into prolonged sexual activity and physically assaulting her when she resisted.
“I urge the court to dissolve this marriage because I can’t stand his excessive sexual urge,” she told the court. “He likes sex too much, and I can’t bear it. Most times, he would have sex with me from midnight till early morning. Even when I cry, he won’t stop.”
According to her testimony, the emotional and physical toll of the marriage had become unbearable. She revealed that she moved out of her husband’s house three months ago and had since been resisting pleas from his relatives to return.
“His family doesn’t know what I’ve been going through. He doesn’t control himself, and when I refuse him, he beats me — even in front of our two children,” she said.
Husband Responds: “I’m Ready to Control My Urge”
In his defense, Mr. Stephen told the court that he remained committed to his wife and had been making efforts to reconcile. He acknowledged his behavior and expressed a willingness to change.
“I love my wife. I’ve been pleading with her not to leave,” he said. “I took my uncles and friends to her parents’ house to beg her, but she walked out on us. I’m now ready to control my sexual urge.”
Mr. Stephen pleaded with the court for more time to resolve the conflict and restore the marriage.
Judge Calls for Calm, Sets Date for Reconciliation Outcome
Presiding Judge John Dauda adjourned the case until May 6, requesting feedback on any progress made during the reconciliation process. He advised both parties to remain peaceful and respectful as efforts continue.
“This court encourages peaceful resolution, especially where children are involved,” the judge said. “However, we will act in the best interests of all parties if reconciliation fails.”
Domestic Abuse and Marital Consent Under Scrutiny
The case has sparked local discussions on issues of marital consent, domestic abuse, and emotional well-being within marriages — topics that are often stigmatized or underreported in traditional communities.
Legal experts note that under Nigerian law, spousal abuse — physical or emotional — remains grounds for divorce, regardless of cultural norms that may discourage speaking out.
The Kaduna court is expected to deliver a conclusive direction at the next hearing.
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