Nollywood actress Laide Bakare has addressed the backlash following a cryptic social media post that many believed was aimed at fellow actress Biola Bayo, who recently announced the end of her marriage.
The controversy began after Laide posted a message that seemed to hint at Biola’s situation. In her post, she wrote:
“All of us will eat breakfast. Asiko lo ma ya to. Good morning, people.”
Many interpreted the phrase “eat breakfast”, Nigerian slang for experiencing heartbreak, as a subtle dig at Biola, who had just gone public with her divorce. Social media users quickly linked the message to Biola’s personal life, sparking a flurry of criticism.
Laide breaks silence
But Laide Bakare has come forward to clear the air. In a follow-up message posted to Instagram, she firmly denied the claims, stating that she was not even aware of Biola’s divorce announcement when she made the post.
According to Laide, she had been celebrating a joyful moment in her own family and had no idea what was going on in Biola’s life.
“Let us all be guarded, please. It’s still June 5th here in America—California, to be precise. I can never shade my own sister @biolabayo,” she wrote.
She explained that her attention was completely on her daughter, Simline, who had just graduated.
“My prayers are with you. I didn’t get any updates. I was busy with @simlineboss’ graduation. Trolls are evil,” she added.
Standing with Biola
Laide went a step further to show public support for Biola Bayo. She called her a “sister” and sent her prayers during what is a difficult time.
Her message was not only a denial but also a call for kindness. She urged social media users to avoid jumping to conclusions and to stop spreading negativity. She stressed that people often post messages without any hidden meaning, and not every post is connected to trending news.
Trolls slammed
Laide also slammed those who quickly assumed the worst about her post. She accused internet trolls of being quick to stir drama where there is none.
“Trolls are evil,” she repeated, making it clear that she believed the backlash was unfair and fueled by people who thrive on conflict.
She emphasised that her relationship with Biola Bayo remains strong and respectful. The idea that she would mock her friend during a painful moment, she said, is completely false.
Biola Bayo opens up about her divorce
Biola Bayo recently shared the news of her divorce with fans on social media. She revealed that her marriage had ended and spoke about the emotional toll it had taken on her.
The actress, who welcomed a child via surrogacy last year, said the decision to part ways with her husband was not an easy one. Her announcement drew widespread attention, sympathy, and support from fans and colleagues in the entertainment industry.
In light of this, many were quick to assume that Laide’s earlier post was targeted at Biola. But Laide insists that was never the case.
Social media pressure
This incident highlights how quickly words can be misunderstood online. A vague or unrelated post can suddenly become the centre of attention, especially when it appears to align with a trending story. For celebrities, every word is scrutinised.
Laide’s call for people to “be guarded” seems to be a reminder that everyone, even public figures, deserves a moment of peace, especially when celebrating personal victories or going through difficult times.
Moving on
As both women move forward, one celebrating a major family milestone and the other dealing with personal loss, their stories remind us that life online is often full of assumptions. Laide Bakare’s message is clear: not every post is meant to hurt, and not every moment should be turned into controversy.
Her final message remains one of peace and support:
“My prayers are with you, Biola. I can never shade my own sister.”
For now, Laide continues to celebrate her daughter’s success, while Biola focuses on healing and rebuilding.
