Timaya speaks on why he avoided marriage
Timaya, Nigerian music star, shares his decision to stay unmarried, discussing marriage, relationships, and fatherhood in a candid Naija FM interview.
Timaya, whose real name is Inetimi Timaya Odon, admitted that he has never been drawn to the idea of marriage. “I’ve never fancied being married,” he said. “It’s not something I’ve ever been drawn to.” However, he didn’t completely dismiss the possibility of tying the knot someday. “Things can change. You never know,” he added with a thoughtful tone.
Desire for freedom
The singer explained that his reluctance to settle down stems from his desire for personal freedom. Timaya revealed that he enjoys living life on his own terms and avoids situations that bring unnecessary stress. Reflecting on past relationships, he said, “In all my previous relationships, I was the one who walked away because I don’t like stress.”
Timaya expressed his skepticism about marriage, questioning its potential constraints. “Marriage dey craze? If I marry today, will I be able to get out if it’s not working?” he mused, laughing lightly. His remarks suggest a cautious approach to lifelong commitments, rooted in his preference for maintaining control over his life.
Communication matters
While marriage may not be on his radar, Timaya highlighted the importance of open communication in relationships. For him, transparency and honesty are non-negotiable. “If you have a problem with me, let’s talk about it,” he said. “I don’t like going to bed with unresolved issues. It stresses me out, and I don’t want anything bothering me.”
His emphasis on clear communication reflects his practical outlook on relationships. He believes that talking through issues helps maintain peace of mind and strengthens connections.
Balancing fatherhood and music
Beyond relationships, Timaya delved into his experience as a father. The singer has four children with different women, and he takes pride in the bond he shares with them. Despite not living with his children full-time, Timaya ensures they maintain close ties. “My children live with their mothers, but we’re all connected. They visit me often and spend extended periods with me,” he said.
Timaya acknowledged that fatherhood can be both challenging and rewarding. “Being a father is stressful, but it’s also enjoyable,” he admitted with a smile. His commitment to being present in his children’s lives underscores his dedication to their well-being.
Respectful co-parenting
When asked about his relationships with the mothers of his children, he stressed that mutual respect is key. Although he’s not romantically involved with them, he maintains a healthy and familial dynamic. “We’re not in relationships, but we respect each other,” he said. This respectful approach allows them to co-parent effectively and ensures a positive environment for their children.
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A balanced outlook
Timaya’s perspective on marriage, relationships, and fatherhood offers a glimpse into his personal values. His candidness reveals a man who prioritizes peace of mind, freedom, and honesty. While he remains open to the possibility of marriage in the future, for now, he seems content with his choices.
The singer’s journey highlights the evolving nature of modern relationships and the importance of finding a balance that works for each individual. As he continues to thrive in his music career and personal life, his reflections remind us that happiness comes in many forms.
In the end, his words resonate with anyone navigating the complexities of love, commitment, and parenthood. Timaya’s story is a testament to staying true to oneself while embracing life’s challenges with an open heart.
