Nollywood actor Jim Iyke has stirred debate on social media after sharing his opinion about the role money should play in romantic relationships.
The actor suggested that when a man is expected to spend money every single time he sees his partner, the relationship stops being genuine.
Jim Iyke commented on a post shared on his Instagram story.
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According to him, a relationship built mainly around constant financial demands is no longer about love or emotional connection.
“If it costs you money every time you see her, that’s prostitution not a relationship,” he wrote.
The statement quickly attracted widespread attention and sparked heated reactions online.
While some people agreed with the actor and described such relationships as unhealthy, others felt his comment was too harsh.
Many social media users argued that relationships naturally involve spending money from time to time, but said the problem begins when one person constantly expects financial support as a condition for affection or attention.
Supporters of Jim Iyke said his comment reflects the reality of many modern relationships.
According to them, some people enter relationships mainly because of what they can gain financially.
They argued that this often puts pressure on one partner, especially men, who may feel they have to keep spending to maintain the relationship.
One user, identified as Obhiglo, wrote: “Some relationships no be dating again, na premium billing. Before you fall in love, check your balance.”
The comment was widely shared by users who said relationships should not feel like a financial burden.
Others pointed out that the issue is not limited to women.
A user known as UtdOlami argued that the same principle should apply in reverse.
“And if it cost you money anytime you see him likewise,” the user wrote.
Many people agreed with that view, saying that any relationship in which one person constantly demands money, regardless of gender, can become unhealthy.
Some social media users described such situations as a major warning sign.
According to them, constantly trying to impress or support a partner financially can lead to stress and even serious personal problems.
Another user, Mr_kwaba, wrote: “That’s a big red flag. You will go broke and go into depression.”
Others, however, disagreed with Jim Iyke’s wording.
They argued that while excessive financial expectations can be a problem, comparing it to prostitution was too extreme.
A user known as RealQudzzy wrote: “Not prostitution but a pure red flag.”
The user’s comment reflected the opinion of many people who felt Jim Iyke could have expressed himself differently.
Some also defended the right of couples to decide what works for them in their relationships.
Mr Larendo wrote: “He has no right to tell me what I should do in my relationship.”
That view sparked another debate about whether celebrities should comment publicly on private relationship matters.
Despite the criticism, several people said Jim Iyke’s comment highlights a growing issue in modern dating culture.
Many noted that social media has increased pressure on people to spend money on relationships.
From expensive gifts and luxury dates to frequent requests for money, some people believe relationships have become more materialistic than before.
Others pointed to the popular idea of “soft life” and “billing culture,” where some people expect their partners to constantly provide money or expensive items.
According to critics of this trend, it can make relationships feel more transactional than emotional.
One user, Truth_pq, argued that the situation is especially common in Nigeria.
“It’s even a myth to think it won’t cost you money anytime you see any Nigerian girl,” the user wrote.
The comment itself generated mixed reactions, with some people agreeing and others calling it an unfair stereotype.
Relationship experts often say that healthy relationships should be based on mutual respect, support, and communication.
While money can play an important role, they argue that it should not become the main reason people stay together.
Many also believe that both partners should contribute in different ways, whether financially, emotionally, or practically.
Jim Iyke is known for speaking openly and sometimes controversially on social issues.
Over the years, the actor has frequently shared his opinions on relationships, success, and personal values.
His latest comment has once again placed him at the centre of online discussion.
For some people, his words were a reminder to avoid one-sided relationships.
For others, they were simply another example of how public figures can spark debate by speaking bluntly.
Regardless of where people stand, the conversation has revealed how strongly many Nigerians feel about money, love, and the expectations that come with relationships.
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