Nigerian rapper Erigga has sparked a wave of reactions on social media after airing his views on Nigerian women and their approach to relationships.
In a post that quickly gained attention, the outspoken musician criticised what he described as a lack of emotional depth in romantic relationships in Nigeria.
Taking to his X (formerly Twitter) account, he wrote that many Nigerian women date for survival rather than love. He claimed that financial benefits are often the main focus in relationships, not emotional connection or genuine romance.
In his words, “Nigerian women are not deep. They date for survival, not romance. Thus, an intentional man means rich. Romance means a monetary gesture. Love means footing their bills. What you people are doing in Nigeria is not relationship.” He wrote.
The post immediately stirred controversy online. Some users agreed with the rapper, saying his comments reflect the reality of modern relationships in the country. Others, however, slammed his remarks as disrespectful and one-sided.
Social media reactions: Divided opinions emerge
As the post spread across social platforms, thousands of users weighed in. Some defended his statement, pointing to the economic challenges in the country as a major reason women seek financial stability in relationships.
A user replied, “He’s just saying what most men already know. Life is hard, and people date for different reasons. It’s not just about feelings anymore.”
Another person commented, “What he said may sound harsh, but it’s true for a lot of people. Women want security, and in this economy, love alone can’t pay the bills.”
However, many others called out the rapper for generalising and making broad assumptions about Nigerian women.
One user fired back, “Not every Nigerian woman is like that. A lot of us work hard and want real love. Erigga should stop painting women as gold diggers.”
Another wrote, “This is exactly why women don’t open up to men. Instead of listening or building trust, you’re out here judging. Relationships are complex.”
Who Is Erigga? A voice from the streets
Erigga, whose real name is Erhiga Agarivbie, is known for his bold opinions and gritty lyrics. Often called “Paperboi,” the rapper has built a strong following by speaking openly about social and economic issues affecting young Nigerians.
He frequently uses his platform to highlight topics like poverty, street life, and survival. His latest comments reflect that same raw style, though this time directed at modern relationships.
While some praised him for “speaking the truth,” others questioned his motive and timing.
An Instagram user wrote, “It’s funny how celebrities always have something to say about women, but don’t talk about how men also treat women like options or ATMs. Relationships go both ways.”
Changing times: Romance, money, and modern love
The rapper’s statement taps into a larger conversation happening in Nigeria and across the world. As economic hardship grows, many people, both men and women, see relationships through the lens of financial security.
In Nigeria, where youth unemployment remains high and inflation continues to rise, the idea of dating purely for love seems increasingly difficult. Many argue that the harsh economic reality forces people to prioritise survival over emotions.
Relationship experts say that while love and romance are still valued, the expectations around dating have shifted. Gifts, financial support, and acts of service now carry greater meaning in modern relationships.
One relationship coach based in Lagos explained, “People often confuse love with financial support, especially in difficult times. It doesn’t mean romance is dead, but the way we express it has changed. Money has become part of the love language.”
Silence from the rapper: No clarification yet
Despite the backlash, he has not responded to the criticisms. He has neither clarified his comments nor posted any follow-up remarks. His silence has only fueled more discussion, with fans and critics debating the line between honesty and offense.
Some believe the rapper is simply holding up a mirror to society. Others feel his message lacked empathy and failed to recognise the struggles of women navigating a tough economy.
The larger question: What does love mean today?
Whatever the intention, one thing is clear his words have reignited an old debate. Is modern love in Nigeria being replaced by transactions? Or is it just evolving in a challenging world?
As conversations continue, many hope this moment will lead to more open and honest dialogue about love, gender roles, and money in Nigerian society.
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