Afrobeat sensation Divine Ikubor, better known as Rema, has said that Nigerian parents rarely challenge or question children who provide financial support to the family.
The chart-topping singer made this statement during a recent conversation with popular content creator Enzo. Their exchange highlighted the often strict cultural values held by Nigerian parents, especially around personal appearance and self-expression.
Enzo shares his experience
During the chat, Rema encouraged Enzo to get a tattoo, suggesting it as a form of self-expression. However, Enzo quickly responded that his mother would never approve. He recalled an experience when he braided his hair, and his mother reacted by refusing to speak to him for days.
“My mum won’t let me get a tattoo,” Enzo said. “The time I did braids, she didn’t talk to me for days. It was bad.”
“Hustle first, then express yourself”
In response, Rema advised him to focus on his career and work harder. The singer explained that parents, especially in Nigerian households, often become more lenient when their children contribute financially to the home.
“Don’t worry, you just need to hustle a little bit more. Wait till you cash out big. Nigerian parents don’t advise breadwinners,” Rema said.
Rema reflects on his journey
The singer’s comments sparked a discussion about the relationship between young Nigerians and their parents, especially when it comes to financial independence and personal choices. For many, Rema’s words reflect a reality where money influences respect, freedom, and acceptance within the family.
Rema has been open about his journey and struggles from an early age. In earlier interviews, he revealed that he became the breadwinner of his family while still a teenager. After his father passed away, he had to step up and support his mother and siblings.
Made his first million at 17
He shared that he made his first million naira at the age of 17. Instead of spending the money on himself, he handed it over to his mother, whom he often describes as his biggest source of strength.
“That first million I made, I gave it all to my mum,” he said in a past interview. “I didn’t buy a car or anything. I just knew she needed it more than I did.”
Rising to fame and global recognition
The singer’s comments come as no surprise to fans who have followed his rise to fame. Since releasing his debut single “Dumebi” in 2019, Rema has become one of Nigeria’s most successful young artists. Known for blending afrobeat with trap and pop influences, he has built a global fan base and collaborated with international stars, including Selena Gomez and Chris Brown.
More than just music
Beyond the music, Rema often speaks about deeper issues, including youth struggles, family pressure, and mental health. In 2022, he told Apple Music that losing his father and brother at a young age shaped his drive to succeed.
“I knew I had to make it. Not just for me, but for my mum. I couldn’t afford to fail,” he said.
A message young Nigerians can relate to
For many Nigerian youths, especially those in creative fields, Rema’s story is both inspiring and relatable. His recent comment about parents respecting financially stable children echoes a common sentiment: money often changes the dynamic between parents and their children in traditional homes.
Mixed reactions online
Online, the clip of Rema and Enzo’s conversation has drawn mixed reactions. Some social media users agreed with the singer’s view, pointing out that parents tend to be more tolerant when their children achieve financial success. Others, however, argued that values, not money, should guide parental support.
Conclusion: Hustle first, then be free
Still, Rema’s message remains clear: in many Nigerian homes, financial independence can lead to more freedom and acceptance.
As he continues to climb the charts and influence young people, Rema’s voice carries weight beyond music. He’s not just a hitmaker; he’s become a symbol of resilience, hustle, and the changing expectations of Nigeria’s next generation.
