Fireboy DML reveals how his tattoos have strained his relationship with his father, calling it the one thing that truly broke his dad’s heart.
In a heartfelt interview, the 29-year-old singer shared how his decision to get tattoos deeply affected his father, creating a rift that still lingers today.
“My tattoos broke my dad’s heart”
Speaking on a recent episode of the 90s Baby Show, Fireboy didn’t hold back. He admitted that getting tattooed might be the one act his father will never truly forgive.
The artist revealed that each time his father visits, he takes extra care to cover up his inked skin with traditional clothing, particularly a jalabiya a long, flowing robe that hides most of his body.
“One thing I’ve done that really broke my dad’s heart? It’s definitely the tattoos,” Fireboy said candidly. “Every time he comes around, I make sure I’m in a jalabiya, completely covered. Seeing my tattoos just hurts him every time.”
Piercings accepted, tattoos rejected
Despite his father’s disapproval, Fireboy explained that his love for body art isn’t tied to his career as a musician. He said that even if he had pursued a more conservative profession, like banking, he still would have gone ahead with getting tattooed.
For him, tattoos are more than just a fashion statement—they are a personal form of art and self-expression.
“My dad doesn’t mind the piercings,” he noted. “But the tattoos? That’s where he draws the line. I don’t think he’ll ever come to terms with them.”
Art, identity, and self-expression
Fireboy’s views on tattoos are deeply personal. He described them as a way to turn his body into a canvas, a walking piece of art. He believes tattoos give him presence, even when he’s dressed simply or shirtless.
“I want to walk into a room in just a singlet and still feel like I’m dressed up,” he said. “That’s what tattoos do for me. They add to my identity.”
The clash between tradition and modernity
The Peru crooner’s story touches on a broader conversation about generational differences, especially when it comes to self-expression and cultural expectations.
In many traditional African households, body modifications like tattoos are still frowned upon. They are often viewed as rebellious or even disrespectful.
For Fireboy, this clash between personal identity and parental approval is a painful balancing act.
Respecting family, despite differences
Still, the singer made it clear that he respects his father deeply. His decision to hide his tattoos during visits shows a continued effort to protect their relationship, even if they don’t see eye to eye. It’s a gesture of love, one that many fans can relate to trying to be true to oneself while keeping family peace.
Fame doesn’t shield artists from struggles
As Fireboy continues to rise in global music circles, his story reminds fans that fame doesn’t shield artists from personal struggles. Behind the glamour and stage lights are real people dealing with real emotions and complex family dynamics.
A story that resonates with many
The interview has sparked discussions online, especially among young Nigerians who face similar challenges in expressing themselves while staying connected to family traditions. Fireboy’s honesty struck a chord with many who admire his courage to speak openly about a topic that’s often kept private.
Finding a middle ground
In the end, his message is clear: self-expression is important, but so is family. Finding the middle ground isn’t always easy, but for Fireboy, it’s a journey worth taking.
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