Afrobeats singer Oyinkansola Sarah Aderibigbe, popularly known as Ayra Starr, has opened up about what she looks for in a romantic partner, revealing that physical appearance is not a priority for her.
The ‘All The Love’ crooner made the revelation during a recent interview with media personality Diana Eneje, where she spoke candidly about relationships, attraction, and the qualities she values most in a partner.
According to Ayra Starr, she has never really had a specific physical type when it comes to dating. Instead, she said she is naturally drawn to people who are intelligent, ambitious, and emotionally mature.
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“I don’t ever have a physical type. I am just attracted to intelligent people. That’s the Gemini in me speaking,” the singer said.
The 23-year-old artiste explained that intelligence goes beyond being academically sound or highly educated. For her, it also means being able to think deeply, communicate well, and understand emotions.
Ayra noted that emotional intelligence is especially important in any relationship. She believes that a healthy relationship should involve two people who are able to understand each other, support one another, and grow together.
“Just be intelligent, motivate me, let me also motivate you. Let’s be motivating ourselves to make money,” she added.
Her comments suggest that she values partnership and shared goals over outward appearance. Rather than focusing on looks, fashion or physical attraction alone, the singer said she wants someone who can inspire her and also be inspired by her.
The award-winning artiste also hinted that she wants a relationship built on mutual encouragement, where both partners push each other to become better and more successful.
For Ayra Starr, love is not only about chemistry but also about building a future together.
“Looks don’t really matter,” she said.
The singer’s statement has generated reactions from fans on social media, with many praising her for prioritising character and intelligence over physical appearance.
Some fans said her comments were refreshing, especially in a society where relationships are often influenced by beauty standards, expensive lifestyles and social media appearances.
Others agreed that emotional intelligence is one of the most important qualities in a partner because it helps people communicate better and avoid unnecessary conflicts.
Over the years, Ayra Starr has become known not only for her music but also for her confidence and openness. Since rising to fame, she has often spoken honestly about her beliefs, ambitions, and personal values.
The singer first gained widespread attention after signing to Mavin Records and releasing her self-titled debut project in 2021. She later became one of the biggest female stars in Afrobeats with hit songs such as “Bloody Samaritan”, “Rush” and “Sability”.
Despite her success, Ayra Starr has remained outspoken about wanting genuine connections and staying true to herself.
Her latest comments reflect a growing conversation among young people about what really matters in relationships. While social media often places emphasis on physical attraction and luxury, many people now say they are more interested in finding partners who are kind, supportive, and emotionally aware.
Relationship experts have also repeatedly stressed the importance of emotional intelligence in building healthy and lasting partnerships.
Emotional intelligence includes the ability to recognise feelings, manage emotions, communicate clearly, and respond to other people with empathy.
Many believe that relationships based only on physical attraction may not last if the people involved do not understand or respect each other.
Ayra Starr’s opinion, therefore, resonates with those who believe that real attraction goes beyond appearances.
Although she jokingly referred to her zodiac sign, Gemini, while explaining her preference, her overall message was clear: she wants someone who can connect with her mind, challenge her positively, and share her drive for success.
As one of the most influential young artistes in Nigeria today, Ayra Starr’s words are likely to continue sparking conversations among her fans about love, attraction, and the qualities that truly matter in a partner.
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