I swore never to have a child unmarried – Ruggedman

Renowned Nigerian rapper Ruggedman shares why he remains unmarried and childless at 51, reflecting on personal vows, past relationships, and life decisions.

In a recent interview on TVC’s Your View, the artist revealed that his decision stems from a personal vow he made in his youth—to never have a child outside of marriage.

Reflecting on this commitment, Ruggedman admitted to moments of doubt. He occasionally wonders if his choice was right or wrong. However, he firmly believes in the importance of finding the right partner and building a solid relationship before settling down.

A personal commitment to marriage

Ruggedman explained that his decision was shaped by his values and principles. From a young age, he resolved not to father a child outside wedlock, despite societal pressures. While many of his peers embraced different lifestyles, he chose a more cautious approach to relationships and family.

“Sometimes, I ask myself if I made the right choice,” he confessed. “But I believe marriage and parenthood require deep commitment from both partners. You should do it with someone you truly love.”

Relationships that didn’t work out

The rapper also opened up about past relationships that did not lead to marriage. He revealed that he had met several women he believed he would end up with, but things did not work out as planned.

One particular relationship stood out. Ruggedman recounted how a wealthy man disrupted his plans to marry a woman he was serious about. According to him, the woman’s mother ultimately chose the richer suitor, forcing them apart.

“I was supposed to marry a certain lady, but a wealthy man came into the picture,” he shared. “Her mother intervened, and we went our separate ways.”

The challenges of finding the right partner

Ruggedman acknowledged that relationships come with challenges, especially for public figures like himself. Finding a genuine connection can be difficult when fame and external influences come into play. He emphasized that love alone is not enough; both partners must be willing to work through obstacles together.

The rapper also noted that societal expectations add pressure. People often assume that by a certain age, one should be married with children. However, he remains focused on finding the right person rather than rushing into marriage due to external expectations.

Looking ahead

Despite past disappointments, Ruggedman has not ruled out marriage or fatherhood. He still hopes to find a partner who shares his values and vision for a lasting relationship.

For now, he remains focused on his career and personal growth. While some may question his choices, he stands by his belief that marriage should be built on love, trust, and mutual understanding.

As he continues his journey, Ruggedman remains open to what the future holds. Whether marriage and fatherhood are in his destiny or not, he is determined to stay true to himself and his values.

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