Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, popularly known as Blaqbonez, has stirred social media reactions after revealing that he wouldn’t mind being in an open marriage.
The Back In Uni crooner made this known while speaking on the latest episode of the In My Opinion podcast, where he discussed his unconventional views on relationships, fidelity, and marriage.
According to Blaqbonez, his stance comes from a realistic view of how marriages evolve.
He argued that many couples experience a decline in intimacy as their relationship progresses, largely due to busy schedules and a lack of sexual exploration outside their union.
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The rapper said he believes that physical intimacy with someone else does not necessarily mean emotional betrayal, as long as there’s mutual understanding and loyalty between partners.
In his words:
“I don’t mind having an open marriage. Most married couples, you don’t keep having the same amount of sex you were having at the beginning, it reduces.
If somebody is satisfying her sexually while I’m hustling, touring, and not available to be intimate all the time, that’s okay. There’s more to marriage than sex. I don’t mind that you’re sleeping with someone else provided you’re dedicated to me.”
Blaqbonez, who is known for his bold and often controversial opinions, further explained that his concept of marriage prioritizes emotional connection, companionship, and mutual respect over sexual exclusivity.
He added that no one can easily replace the kind of bond he shares with his partner, emotionally, mentally, or even comedically.
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“It will be difficult for a random person to just come and match up with what I have put in there. Nobody is just going to get her sexually and also mentally addicted to them. They probably can’t make her laugh the way I do,” he said.
The rapper also shared that if he ever gets married, he envisions a living arrangement that gives both partners personal space and independence.
“If I’m even going to get married, I need two rooms. Me and my wife will only meet when we want to have intimacy,” he added.
Blaqbonez’s statement has since gone viral, sparking mixed reactions across social media. While some fans applauded his honesty and openness about modern relationships, others criticized him for promoting ideas they believe could weaken the institution of marriage.
Supporters argue that Blaqbonez is simply being realistic about the challenges of monogamy, especially for celebrities with demanding careers and constant travel. Others, however, accused him of trying to justify infidelity, saying his views could encourage distrust between partners.
This isn’t the first time the rapper has courted controversy over his views on love and sex. Blaqbonez has often described himself as an advocate of sexual freedom and self-awareness, frequently urging young people to challenge societal norms around relationships.
His previous songs and interviews also reflect his belief in exploring one’s individuality even within romantic commitments.
Despite the criticism, the rapper maintained that his outlook is not about disrespecting marriage but redefining it in a way that aligns with personal truth and transparency.
Blaqbonez’s take adds to the ongoing cultural debate around open relationships and evolving views on love in modern society, particularly within the entertainment industry, where long-distance relationships and busy schedules often strain emotional connections.
As his remarks continue to trend, one thing remains clear: Blaqbonez is unafraid to challenge convention, sparking conversations that push the boundaries of how Nigerians perceive love, loyalty, and marriage in the 21st century.
