Popular social commentator and activist, VeryDarkMan, has strongly criticized billionaire heir and reality TV star, Kiddwaya, over his recent call for public donations to assist victims of the deadly attack in Yelwata, Benue State.
Kiddwaya, who is known for showcasing his luxurious lifestyle on social media, sparked controversy after posting a message on X (formerly Twitter), urging Nigerians to contribute funds for the affected community.
The post quickly drew backlash from many users who questioned his sincerity. Following the negative reactions, Kiddwaya deleted the post.
VeryDarkMan fires back
Reacting in a video posted on X, VeryDarkMan described Kiddwaya’s appeal as both ironic and insensitive. He questioned why someone who regularly boasts about his wealth would suddenly seek help from everyday Nigerians to solve a crisis.
“The first thing you did was write a quick post and then drop an account number,” VeryDarkMan said. “How do you know what the people in Benue need when you haven’t even gone there? You’re just in your comfort zone, posting nonsense and asking for money.”
He went further, “I’m glad Nigerians called you out to the point that you had to delete the post. That pleased me. You’re always showing off your wealth, acting like you’re better than everyone else, and now you’re asking people for money? That doesn’t add up.”
Activist calls for real solutions, not publicity stunts
VeryDarkMan didn’t stop at Kiddwaya. He also issued a stern warning to non-governmental organisations (NGOs) that may try to exploit the situation in Benue for personal or financial gain.
He emphasised that the main issue in the region is not hunger, but insecurity. According to him, simply distributing food items will not address the root of the problem.
“To every NGO out there thinking about cashing in on this tragedy, let me be clear: the people of Benue are not starving,” he said. “You go collect money from the government, say you wan give relief, then you show up with rice, beans, and garri. That’s not what they need. The real problem is safety. They are under threat, not hungry.”
Suggests armed vigilante groups as a better response
Instead of food donations, VeryDarkMan suggested a more direct and lasting solution. He called on community leaders in the affected areas to form vigilante groups that could defend their people against attacks. He proposed that such groups seek official permission to bear arms from the Inspector General of Police.
“If local leaders in Benue can come together, set up a proper vigilante group, and write to the IGP requesting approval for weapons, then we will support,” he said. “If that happens, I’ll personally post my NGO’s account number and ask every Nigerian to donate, even if it’s just 5 naira each. At least that would go to real protection.”
“Everyone must play a role”, Final call to action
The activist stressed that this is not the time for silence or half-measures. He urged both individuals and organisations to rise above words and take meaningful actions.
“This is not the time to talk and go quiet. We are beyond that now. Everyone has a role to play in solving this crisis,” he said.
VeryDarkMan’s comments have added a new layer to the public conversation surrounding aid and accountability in times of national tragedy. While some support his bold stance, others believe public figures like Kiddwaya should not be discouraged from rallying support regardless of their background.
Still, the message from the activist is clear: If you have the means, lead by example, not by asking others to do what you can afford to do yourself.
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