Nollywood actress Jemima Osunde has spoken out against the growing sense of entitlement among some women who believe they should only date or marry wealthy men.
The actress, known for her outspoken views, took to her X handle to question the mentality of women who fantasise about depending solely on a rich partner.
She described the belief as unrealistic, especially given Nigeria’s current economic realities.
“Work his ass off for money. Wetin do your own ass? You don’t want to work? In this economy? It’s like some of you think we’re still living in Bible times,” Osunde wrote in a blunt post that quickly gained attention online.
She further stressed that there are simply not enough billionaires to go around. According to her, many women hold on to the dream of becoming rich housewives, but that dream does not reflect reality.
“My good sis, there’s not enough billionaires in the world for all of us to be housewives. You better go and look for work,” she added.
Her comments have since stirred conversations on social media, with many praising her for saying what they believe others are too afraid to admit. Supporters agreed that relying on men for wealth is a fragile strategy, especially in today’s economy, where even the rich face financial pressures.
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Critics, however, argued that Osunde’s message overlooked cultural and social factors that sometimes make women dependent on men.
They suggested that her tone came across as dismissive rather than empathetic. Still, the wider discussion reflects a growing debate about relationships, money, and gender roles in Nigeria.
Osunde’s message is part of a larger conversation around financial independence. More women, especially in younger generations, are being encouraged to seek personal achievement rather than rely solely on marriage for financial security. Her call for women to work and engage in productive ventures echoes this shift.
The actress also indirectly addressed societal expectations that often place pressure on men to be providers. By questioning why only the man’s “ass” should work, she highlighted the imbalance in such relationships. To her, women must also share responsibility for their own financial stability.
Jemima Osunde, who combines her acting career with a professional background in physiotherapy, has built a reputation as someone who values hard work.
Her lifestyle and career path reflect the very message she preaches: that women can succeed on their own terms without waiting for a wealthy partner to provide everything.
In an economy marked by rising inflation and job uncertainty, her words ring even louder. The reality is that many households now rely on dual incomes to survive.
For Osunde, the solution is not daydreaming about luxury but rolling up one’s sleeves and finding ways to contribute.
Whether people agree with her tone or not, her message has sparked important conversations about gender roles, entitlement, and the value of work in today’s Nigeria. For Jemima Osunde, love may be a beautiful part of life, but money, she insists, is something everyone should work for.
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